Thursday, October 31, 2013

8 Tips Getting Guys to Notice You

When it comes to your love life, there are some women who seem to have it easy. Usually they are the ones who have a way of getting guys to notice them. So it’s obvious that the more you can get guys to notice you and talk with them, the better your love life is going to be. To help your love life, use these tips when it comes to getting guys to notice you.


(another related article: What Men Want in Relationships)
 

Have something different about you

This will help out a lot when it comes to guys you don’t normally talk to, but have something unique about you. This can be in; the colors you wear, unique shoes, or a funky colored highlight in your hair. Just remember to keep it stylish. This is a way of standing out from the other women when normally you would just get overlooked. Believe me that guys will notice the subtle difference, and this is your start in getting him to notice.



Your appearance needs to reflect who you are

When it comes to the things you wear and your style, it should reflect a little of who you are. Don’t just wear a unique dress for the sake of it, wear something that reflects who you are as a person. Guy are drawn to women who they believe have more depth to them than just the surface. One way of showing guys that there’s more to you and they need to find out what it is, is if your style reflects that there’s more to you than just the surface.



Learn to be talkative

No guy will notice the quiet shy type that never initiates a conversation. Women will often make the mistake of waiting for others to talk to them. To stand out and make yourself known, you should be the one who initiates the conversations. Be in control of your surroundings and initiate conversations with the people around you. Not only will this give you an opportunity to talk to more guys, but it makes you stand out as a confident and strong woman which men are attracted to.

 

Be the initiator

The popular girl in high school was popular for a reason, she was the initiator. Whether this is through initiating conversations with people or initiating events on the weekends, it’s why she was popular. People are generally looking for someone to follow, so if you are the one who initiates things, they will be drawn to you.



Always have something going on, and invite people

 
 
Another tip in getting guys to notice you is in always having something to do on the weekends. People are looking for things to do on the weekends but will lack the ambition in setting out and making plans happen. By being known as the one who always has something to do, people will look to you and your plans in the middle of their week. This is accomplished by coming up with new and adventurous ideas of places to go or things to do. Just be sure to invite them.



You need a hook

A little tip in initiating conversations with guys is to keep a snack on you or pictures on your phone of things you like. This way you’ll have a conversation starter or casual reason to talk with them. Or you can use them to go more in depth in your chat with him as it give you both something to talk about and displays your interest. Show them the interesting pictures of your hobbies on your phone, or offer them a little of your snack. This is how relationships are built, little by little conversations happening and then developing into greater things. This tip is useful for getting your conversations off the surface.



Ask guys for help a lot

If you notice that the guy you’re into is good with computers, pretend to be technology illiterate. Ask him for help doing the simple things. Not only is this a good chance to build a relationship with him and talk with him, but guys like feeling like the hero in situations. This is another opportunity to give him compliments and work your charm through doing so.

 

Smiling more

In getting a guy to notice you, keep your persona pleasant. This is done by staying positive and smiling. No one likes talking to someone who is a downer, people are naturally drawn to others who help them and better their day. By smiling more and having a positive vibe about yourself, it will act as a magnet than will draw other guys in.

 

Getting a chance to talk to guys and making them notice you isn’t a hard thing to do. Most women don’t talk advantage of these situations or take control of their love lives by making guys notice them. Using these tips, who knows what your love life will blossom into in the future.
 
 
 
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